Passionate people who are ready for change
I am raising my kids in a world where rape earns you three months in prison and mass shootings happen nearly every day.
That is scary stuff, my friends.
But what can I do?
I can safely say that I am not part of the problem. Not only have I never assaulted anyone, but I am doing my best to teach my kids about consent. No means no, we don't keep secrets, and you never have to give someone a hug or a kiss if you don't want to, even Mommy or Daddy. I share the occasional article or meme or graph that amuses or informs on facebook. I have a "Blessed Ramadan" sign in my yard and am looking forward to participating in an Iftar dinner in a few weeks. I have marched in a Pride parade. I have met plenty of people whose race, religion, political affiliation, and sexual orientation are different than mine, and if I didn't like them, it wasn't because of their race, religion, political affiliation, or sexual orientation. It was because they were a jerk.
Go me, right?
I'm not a part of the problem, and I take comfort in that.
But that is no longer enough.
We need to be an active part of the solution, and we need to do it now.
This is where I stumble. I am actually asking: what can I do?
Give blood? I already have an appointment on Thursday. But there must be more than that.
Give money? There's not a lot to spare, but we will make something work if a monetary donation would make a difference.
Give time? I don't have much of that to spare either, but I am truly open to suggestions, and I know others are, too.
If you have suggestions, please reach out. I would love them to be shared publicly so others with the same question can use the resources, as well, but if you are more comfortable sending me a private message, please do.
The hate needs to stop now.
If you are in Minnesota and want to know more about attending an Iftar dinner yourself, click here.
If you want to give blood, contact your local Red Cross. Trinity in St Peter is having a blood drive on Thursday and there are still openings. Click here to sign up or here to find a blood drive or donation center in your area.
If you want to read my thoughts on when it is okay for you to pass judgement on other people, click here.
The hate needs to stop. Now.